So I moved out of Provo and I'm back with my family. Love them so much! Last night my little brother and I decided we wanted to make cookies, but we were out of chocolate chips, so I convinced him to grab some bikes and then we'd head over to the local Wal-Mart to find some of our missing ingredient. As we headed off on our journey, I realized that the wet roads from the rain were not conducive to keeping my clothing dry and clean.
Oh, well! So we got to Wal-Mart, and I had this stripe of wet and dirt going from my mid-back to the crotch of my shorts. Haha I looked like some skunk wanna be! We wandered our way through the store trying to find the chocolate chips, and when we did, they were out of normal ones! AHHH!! So we got minis instead. FOR CUTE :)
Anywho, as we were on our way out, we ran into a friend of my older brother's (he was also a friend of mine and was in one of my classes in high school) who just got back from his mission in TX the night before. Good to see him and see that he's doing well.
So we then checked out and headed on our way home. AND IT STARTED TO POUR! This is a strange phenomenon in UT...it never pours, it rains slightly. But this time it was pouring, and we both got D-R-E-N-C-H-E-D. So much fun though!! We got home and we were dripping, so we took a quick warm shower and then went to make our cookies.
Definitely one of life's greatest pleasures! :D Wouldn't trade that experience for anything!
Oh, and then after cookies...we decided to have a music party. Benj pulled out music from Owl City and we tried to figure it out for a while (him on the piano and me on my guitar), but it was new to both of us so we decided to go with something a little more known. He pulled out 100 Years and we jammed to that until Michael came home and distracted us.
Love times like this :D
Today was snowy on my way to work. Weird. We had a department meeting, which are usually boring since pretty much nothing they say applies to me as I am a student employee and not faculty. This time though, there was a quote on the agenda that kept me quite mentally entertained during the meeting. It's from a BYU-Idaho devotional given on May 29, 2007 by Kenneth L. Southwick:
Today was snowy on my way to work. Weird. We had a department meeting, which are usually boring since pretty much nothing they say applies to me as I am a student employee and not faculty. This time though, there was a quote on the agenda that kept me quite mentally entertained during the meeting. It's from a BYU-Idaho devotional given on May 29, 2007 by Kenneth L. Southwick:
"What is the great measure of my discipleship?... I would like to suggest the following: the great measure of our discipleship is how we view others... Do we see others as a spirit son or daughter of God, as a person, as a human being, as a soul of infinite worth? Or do we see them as something less?... Now what do I mean when I say, "We see others as something less than what they are?" I will give you five examples and... for each of these I am going to hold up an object. I do that on purpose because when we see others as less than who they really are we see them as objects.
The first object is a check list - one that you can put on your refrigerator with magnets or that sits on the corner of your desk. Sometimes, instead of seeing another as a person to be served, we see them as a task to be accomplished.
The next object is a bunch of grapes. Sometimes we see others not as an individual, but only as a member of some group.
The third object is a can of mosquito spray. Sometimes we see others not as a person but as a pest or a nuisance, an annoyance to be dealt with, postponed, simply endured, or avoided altogether.
The next one is a TV remote... Sometimes... we view others as an interruption.
The last object is a mirror. Sometimes we see others as a mirror. When we do this... we are more interested in the other person's opinion of us than we are the other person.
This list... presents us with an opportunity to learn, to change, to grow, and to become more like the Savior."
The first object is a check list - one that you can put on your refrigerator with magnets or that sits on the corner of your desk. Sometimes, instead of seeing another as a person to be served, we see them as a task to be accomplished.
The next object is a bunch of grapes. Sometimes we see others not as an individual, but only as a member of some group.
The third object is a can of mosquito spray. Sometimes we see others not as a person but as a pest or a nuisance, an annoyance to be dealt with, postponed, simply endured, or avoided altogether.
The next one is a TV remote... Sometimes... we view others as an interruption.
The last object is a mirror. Sometimes we see others as a mirror. When we do this... we are more interested in the other person's opinion of us than we are the other person.
This list... presents us with an opportunity to learn, to change, to grow, and to become more like the Savior."
WOW!! Talk about a smack on the head!! I feel horrible now that I realize how terrible I have been to some people I have met or known. I am so sorry! If I've ever treated you as an object, please, please, please forgive me. Now I see that it's not so much how we treat others that matters, but how we view them, for we will treat them as we view them. I need to be better at this, and I know I won't be perfect right away. It will take some work, but I'm willing to try, I need to try, I must try.
I need to be better at seeing those around me as people with a divine inheritance, rather than objects to be maneuvered or removed. Again, I'm sorry if I ever treated you like an object (and chances are, I did on multiple occasions).
Well, I'm ready to go head up to Alaska in about a week and a half. I'm gonna take what I've learned and do my best to apply it there so I can come back a better person. :) So excited to see the wonderful area of Juneau! Already got some great advice from people who have been there or know someone currently living there who I could contact! :)
I miss you!
ReplyDeleteAnd I really, really liked that thought.